On Tuesday (June 3rd) I had my 24 week apt. with Dr. Marichal. The appointment went well and I fell in love with my doctor again! My blood pressure was normal, my stomach was measuring right on track (25 cm I think) and Eli's heartbeat was really strong.
Dr. Marichal said that he could do another ultrasound at my next apt. on July 1st so that I didn't have to wait until 34 weeks (that's when we have our next Level 2 ultrasound) to see how Eli's growth was progressing. I am pretty excited about that, and hopefully all will look good with his right kidney and right femur.
Dr. Marichal recommended that Jered and I see a counselor that specializes in working with families in situations like ours. He said in a way we are grieving the fact that we aren't having a "normal" child. That kind of bothers me, but I see what he is saying and I think it can't hurt to talk with someone. I was pretty emotional during the visit. I think part of it was being in that same exam room and see my doctor again; it just brought back all of the emotions of what we learned at our 20 week apt. Then when I was checking out I heard a couple in the waiting room all excited after their ultrasound - they were having a boy! Part of me ached for that feeling of pure happiness- no worries.... But, that's not my journey I guess.
The other exciting thing that happened was that we got an appointment to see Dr. Woo, the Pediatric Orthopedic Surgeon on July 29th! This is a huge accomplishment and I am so grateful.
Seeing someone help me so much!!Eli is "normal", just not whay you typically expect. 10 fingers, 10 toes can go out the window in my book. A strong heart and brain and a happy smile and beautiful soul is what matter most!Try to enjoy the time while Eli is inside of you, he will always be safe and sound both inside and outside of your body.
ReplyDeleteBig, big hugs!